Canon Carol Wardman
Sunday worship 6th September
We will be holding our next Sunday service on the 6th September. Please let us know if you would like to join us.
Sunday Reflection
Diocesan Collect for the week
Almighty and everlasting God, you are always more ready to hear than we to pray and to give more than either we desire or deserve: pour down upon us the abundance of your mercy,
forgiving us those things of which our conscience is afraid and giving us those good things which we are not worthy to ask but through the merits and mediation of Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.
Sunday reflection
Dear all,
“Who do people say the Son of Man is?”……Who do you say I am?” – Jesus in St Matthew 16:13-20.
“You are the Christ, the Son of the living God” – Peter, as above.
“All I want is my Prince Charming.” – ‘Wife’ in Married At First Sight, Australia.
“I’m feeling real bad at the moments about not being her fairy tale.” – ‘Husband’, as above.
My niece was married in Australia last year and so, being unable to go, I watched an episode of Married at First Sight, Australia to get an idea of what an Australian wedding was like. What I didn’t realise is that, although they make vows when they meet for the first time at the ceremony, the couples aren’t legally married so that they are free to move on later if the relationship doesn’t work out. They are matched by ‘experts’ for an ‘experiment’ to see whether science can be more successful than their own failed attempts to find partners for life. In the episode I watched, it was clear that some couples had unrealistic expectations, with the above couple in particular finding reality hard. Their comments made me think of the words of the Archbishop of Canterbury when Prince Charles and Lady Diana married and he suggested that this was the stuff of which fairy tales are made. Sadly, that proved not to be the case for them, as for others, and the painful reality of divorce resulted.
That’s been so this week with the turmoil over the exam results – what was the actual reality, given estimated grades, the disputed algorithm, the reversing of decisions and future dreams? Could there be a fairy tale ending or were hopes dashed? Outcomes varied tremendously – and yet another complication of the way the ongoing pandemic is affecting so many lives became clear. That’s so for my niece and her husband too, living near a hotspot and now expecting their first child at a time when, for many couples, the joys and hopes of pregnancy are tempered by the restrictions and realities of Covid-19. The ‘new normal’ is challenging.
The disciples found themselves wrestling with a ‘new normal’ in the Gospel reading today as Jesus takes them into Caesarea Philippi, two days’ walk away from their Galilean homes. Leaving the familiar behind, he asks them a question about who the Son of Man is and they give traditional answers such as John the Baptist, Elijah and Jeremiah. When Jesus asks who they think he is, Peter replies that he is the Christ, Son of the living God – he realises that the dreams and hopes of the Messiah, prophesied for so long, are being fulfilled in the reality of the person before him. A ‘new normal’ has come into being as the future hope becomes part of the present reality – no fairy tale, but a story of miracles, muddles, suffering and soul-searching that changes the lives of those who are willing to engage with this nuanced reality. It’s not until Easter Day that Jesus is called God by Thomas but, for now, Peter’s realisation is profound and Jesus gives him a new name for the role he will play in the different future that is coming into being, a present reality that is far more challenging than those disciples then could have realised. This reality will involve, not Prince Charming, but the Prince of Peace and a costly love for humanity which could last a lifetime – and beyond.
Those disciples must have been in turmoil then as they grappled with all this and perhaps that’s so for us, too, as we face the lengthy challenges of a virus that is so hard to overcome, relationships that aren’t easy to sustain due to the restrictions and such difficult choices having to be made. Our present reality continues to be challenging and the consequences of the pandemic continues to cause such disruption to students, people having to quarantine at short notice, those who still have to seek isolation as the risk of infection continues, the economy…… Life and love may not be turning out as we expected, yet future hope can still shape the current reality and who we are capable of becoming, even when hearts are broken, relationships fail and plans are disrupted. If and when we seek it, there is hope that the costly love witnessed by those first disciples can also enable us, today, to find new beginnings and begin to transform our fairy tales into reality – life doesn’t have to be always Grimm!
With my prayers and apologies for so awful a pun,
Christine
Diocesan prayer for the week
Bountiful God,
In your creation you gave us the freedom to make many choices so guard us from decisions which harm ourselves or others. May those whose privilege affords greater freedom be always mindful of the common good, so that all may enjoy the generosity of your provision and by our actions may we not deny good things of mind, body or spirit to others. Amen.
Canon Carol Wardman
Sunday reflection
Dear all,
“Out of the heart come evil thoughts…… These are what defile a person; but eating with unwashed hands does not defile them.” – Jesus, in today’s Gospel, Matt 15:10-28, NIV.
”Toilet paper was the most sought after item” – Edward Woodward, Royal Corps of Signals, speaking of supplies dropped by air in the Far East.
Today’s Gospel may have an ironic ring to it as the Covid-19 restrictions ease but emphasis remains on hand washing and the keeping of a social distance. Hand washing is used by the Pharisees to provoke Jesus by asking why his disciples don’t wash their hands before they eat, as is customary for observant Jews. He calls them hypocrites and tells the crowd that what comes out of people’s mouths when they speak matters more than hand washing, before he crosses another traditional boundary by going into the region of Tyre and Sidon.
In this area, the Canaanites and Jews had been enemies since Canaan had been cursed by Noah’s son (Gen.9:25-27) – yet a Canaanite woman beseeches him for help. At first, Jesus honours the traditions of his day by ignoring her as she’s both female and regarded as a pagan enemy of the Jews. But the woman perseveres, asking Jesus to have pity on her and telling him that her daughter is tormented by a devil, which would indicate mental illness today. His disciples urge him to send her away and Jesus makes it clear that his ministry is to the Jews only – but she persists, approaches him despite the distance that should be observed between them and shows humility and respect by kneeling before him as she asks again for his help. In calling her a dog, Jesus then belittles her – yet she replies that even dogs will eat the scraps they are given. Her perseverance overcomes the barriers between them, Jesus praises her for her great faith and her daughter is healed.
The astonishing thing about this encounter is that the woman’s courage and determination seem to change Jesus’ mind – he begins to realise that his ministry is to gentiles as well as Jews. This happens soon after Peter’s lack of faith during the storm, the demands of the crowd and the challenging questions of the Pharisees, so perhaps Jesus found the unnamed woman’s faith heartening. She is unclean in terms of the traditions of his day – yet, as those who would normally avoid one another overcome boundaries and engage in conversation, Jesus finds greater understanding and the woman’s daughter is healed, as she hoped. Through the unexpected encounter, Jesus changes his mind and both meet each other’s needs – and that is the hope for us today as the pandemic rolls on. We are now having to find new ways of still relating to each other and as church through the media while social distancing and hand washing are still essential. As the battle with Covid-19 is also creating a rise in mental health issues, this incident in Canaan reminds us that there is no need for distance, cleansing or well being before Jesus is contactable today – prayer is the direct means anywhere, any time, with no need for hand sanitiser first!
All this coincides with the VJ commemorations this week as the Forgotten Army is remembered and the awful conditions of fighting in the Far East, the treatment of prisoners of war and the terrible death toll are honoured. Many nations combined in the fighting with more than 12,000 prisoners of war dying in captivity and an estimated 71,000 British and Commonwealth casualties. At the time, those soldiers overcame the distance and differing languages, religions, customs and conventions of their day as they united In the cause of freedom and peace – as Prince Charles said at the National Memorial Arboretum, “Let us affirm that they and the surviving veterans are not forgotten…. Your service and your sacrifice will echo through the years.” Yet, amidst the horror of it all, a soldier is filmed operating a machine gun whilst smoking a pipe, toilet rolls were still valued and the last Japanese soldier only surrendered in 1974. They, and their families, sacrificed so much and yet it’s sometimes tempting to think that this is a long time ago and all happened far away. As the Burma Star on one of the local gravestones in St Melangell’s churchyard reminds us, though, this is all much closer at hand than we sometimes realise. Today, we also have great challenges to face as our mindset, expectations and way of life have to change so significantly while the battle to contain Covid-19 and find a vaccine continues. It’s costly, unsettling – and vital:
Ours is a ‘today’ dearly ransomed in blood
That freely flowed ‘yesterday’.
A sacrifice, the whole
This tennis court was too poor to contain.
Gallantly they laid their lives down.
What price, what price a soul…?
From In Grateful Dedication by Easterine Kire
With my prayers,
Christine
Diocesan prayer for the week
Merciful God;
Your compassion for all in distress is boundless.
Sustain, we pray, those stricken by disaster and unrest, in the midst of the pandemic crisis.
Give humility and wisdom to leaders and discernment to the peoples,
that righteousness may prevail,
and that in your time and your way, good may come out of their troubles.
In the healing name of Jesus: Amen.
Canon Carol Wardman
Sunday reflection
Stormy weather, then and now.
“Jesus….went up on a mountainside by himself to pray. When evening came he was there alone.” – from St Matthew 14:22-33, NIV.
“She’s become very self-sufficient in lockdown – she’s even doing her own nails!” – reporter Ross King, of Michelle Obama.
Today’s Gospel continues from last week’s, where Jesus first sought solitude following the news of the terrible death of John the Baptist but then attended to the needs of the large crowds awaiting him instead. Now, he makes the disciples go ahead of him by boat and dismisses the crowds so that he can be alone to pray. Matthew writes that the weather is windy and, despite being buoyed up with the day’s miracle of sharing five small fish and loaves to feed so many, the disciples are now caught in a storm. Many of them were fishermen, familiar with weather predictions, so why did they set sail? Had a gale arisen without warning? Were they doing what Jesus told them? If so, why would he put them in danger? There are so many questions about what’s actually going on as these followers do what their leader tells them.
Amidst all this, Jesus comes to his disciples by walking over the water and, despite the miraculous events of the day, they are very frightened when they see him. The fourth watch of the night is 3-6am and also known as the witching hour – darkness is thought to be at its greatest just before dawn so, with the mindset of their day, the disciples are terrified by what they think is a ghost. Only Peter finds the courage to speak and try to walk on water himself. Matthew tells us that, at first, he does – but his fears eventually get the better of him and he begins to sink. Jesus then reaches out and catches him with the well-known, and still often-used, phrase, “O ye of little faith,” (KJV) and, as both get into the safety of the boat, the wind dies down and all aboard land safely.
Perhaps, after the events of the day, Peter had thought that, by the sheer force of his own will, he could tap into the power of Jesus to do miraculous things. As his fear overcomes him, Peter is only saved by reaching out for Jesus’s hand – a reminder to us all that Christianity is a relationship with a saviour, not a system of achieving miraculous results. Prayer, worship and care for self and others are at the heart of it – and that is needed more than ever as the storm-clouds around the Covid-19 pandemic continue to gather. It seems that gales of criticism and variations of policy are causing confusion as further outbreaks develop – choppy waters are still ahead, anxiety is resurfacing for many as winter draws near and we may be as understandably fearful as those first disciples. Like them, we are today expected to follow faithfully what we’re being told to do by leaders as the turbulence of anxiety, restriction, treatment and criticism created by the pandemic continues to whirl around. There may be many questions for us about what’s actually going on as followers begin to query what their leaders are now telling them. Yet we’re all in the same boat, trying to outrace the unknown consequences of a new virus as we face an uncertain forecast about the future – even if it’s in a dinghy, trying to cross the channel.
Like Michelle Obama, the prospect of this has caused many to become self-sufficient and do for themselves in lockdown what they would normally expect to receive, whilst offering encouragement to others through podcasts, phone calls or remote contact. Yet, after the terrible explosion in Beirut, and despite the risk of Covid-19 in such chaos, surgeons nevertheless stitch wounds by the light of mobile phones in the car park, a nurse rescues three premature babies by holding them closely in the darkness and an aged woman plays her piano in the debris of her ruined home. Death, suffering and destruction are everywhere – but so are hope, love and new beginnings, brought through hands reaching out to help those in need. In the face of such uncertainty, adversity and turbulence perhaps our watchword today should be the other words of Jesus to his followers facing the terrifying storms then and today, as he brings God’s love and hope of the miraculous into the everyday and at the darkest of hours: “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.”
With my prayers,
Christine
Diocesan prayer for the week
God of peace, you draw close to us, breathing tranquility into the storms of our fears. In your calming presence may we step forward courageously, knowing that your grace and strength will sustain us in every situation, so that our faith may not be for us alone, but bring peace to others amidst the turbulence of the world. Amen. (Canon Carol Wardman)
Next Sunday Service 23rd August
Our next Sunday service will be on 23rd August. Please contact us if you wish to attend as spaces are limited due to physical distancing requirements.
This will be a short and simple service to ensure we keep everyone as safe as possible. At this time we are unable to meet for refreshments before or after the service. We will keep you updated with any changes or developments.
Sunday reflection
Dear all,
“When Jesus heard what had happened, he withdrew privately to a solitary place. Hearing of this, the crowds followed him on foot from the towns. When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them and healed their sick.”
Sunday worship to resume on 2nd August
Dear all,
On Sunday 2nd August 2020, we will be opening for a simple Sunday service at 3pm.
This service will be somewhat different from usual, as additional safety measures are needed to allow us to resume. These will include physical distancing and hygiene procedures. The service will be shorter than usual and at this time we will not be able to sing together.
We have recruited a group of volunteer stewards to help keep everyone as safe as possible. Please follow their instructions if you are able to join us.
Due to all these measures, numbers will be limited as we need to allow two metres between each household.
We hope that this will allow us to develop safe ways to regularly come together for worship.
Thank you for your continued patience and support.
Sunday reflection
Dear all,
“When, therefore, a teacher of the law has become a learner in the kingdom of heaven, he is like a householder who can produce from his store both the new and the old.“ Jesus, in St Matthew 13:31-33,44-52, NEB.
“In my vulnerability we found an intensity of love that we’d never expressed before. Being closer to the last day has brought a richness to each and every day.” George Alagiah, speaking of the spread of his cancer.
Today’s Gospel reading for the Seventh Sunday after Trinity speaks of the kingdom of heaven in a series of images giving glimpses of the different aspects of God’s kingdom. Each one includes the words ‘the Kingdom of heaven is like….‘ and there is a pairing among them.
The parables of the mustard seed and yeast are addressed to the crowds and show small beginnings leading to great developments – from just a seed, and with the hard work of the farmer, a great plant grows which is big enough to shelter the birds. A small quantity of yeast has power to affect a large quantity of flour – three measures would bake enough bread for 100-150 people – and in those days, people didn’t usually have pure yeast but would keep some leavened dough from the last batch to leaven the next. With care and time, it would spread throughout the flour, making a huge difference, of which these parables speak. Jesus intended to encourage those listening to him and this applies to us today as we consider the small beginnings now possible as the Covid-19 restrictions ease. The challenges ahead may seem daunting – even opening the church and holding services has to be done after risk assessments, training, no singing and at a two metres distance. This may seem hard work and our resources too few but the words and stories of Jesus to his followers then may give us hope today.
Jesus continues with the parables addressed to the disciples when the crowds have gone. He speaks of hidden treasure and a valuable pearl – objects of great worth which lead to those who discover them selling all they have to own the field where the treasure is buried or the pearl of great price. Neither owner is sad to sell everything, because of the prospect of possessing such treasure – people often buried valuable possessions because there were no secure banks, small villages were sometimes looted and soldiers were free to take what they needed. It was a case of finders, keepers if treasure had been forgotten because its owner had died or if they had left home and were unable to return. Jesus reminded his followers about commitment to what is being asked of them at a time of great uncertainty – how appropriate to hear this today, in the uncertainty we face and as we consider what is of real worth now.
Finally, in the parable of the net Jesus speaks of a dragnet which scoops up all sorts of fish. As sea creatures without scales or fins could not be eaten by observant Jews, the unusable fish would be sorted by the fishermen and later discarded. Jesus indicates that the separation of good and bad will happen and, as we consider the moral issues and complex decisions of what’s happened during the Coronavirus pandemic, we need to be mindful of the investigations and judgements that will come for governments, communities and individuals as responsibilities and actions are considered later on.
Jesus used these simple stories to tell truths about God and his kingdom that are still as relevant today as they were then. Covid-19 has made many reassess what is important in life and, with our way of life so profoundly changing, the vulnerability now being experienced by so many may teach us much, as George Alagiah has discovered. We have much to learn and, like the householder of whom Jesus speaks, in the days ahead we will also have to produce the old and the new, mingling both to shape the new normal as it evolves. There will be indications of what to look for: ”the kingdom’s form is perpetually little, always seed-sized, divinely designed to be a treasure in earthen, not golden, vessels so that the exceeding greatness of the gospel’s power might always be God’s, not human beings” – FD Bruner.
Collect for the week
Lord of all power and might,
the author and giver of all good things:
graft in our hearts the love of your name,
increase in us true religion,
nourish us with all goodness,
and of your great mercy keep us in the same;
through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord,
who is alive and reigns with you
and the Holy Spirit,
one God, now and for ever.
With my prayers,
Christine